Putting the REAL in Realationships

I have a boyfriend far away I grant you- who is masturbating to other women online through porn sites - I was very hurt when he said he was still doing it
because I had not done that and to me its disgusting  we were trying to make things work and he was fantasising with other women I asked how could he do that to me and why would he think that would be acceptable to me if were trying to make things work - Its no better than cheating -
He said well its just porn - as if that little bit of information had somehow escaped my imagination - ya I know it is and regardless I feel as though its a breach in trust and that if u want to fantasize about other people your better off being single

If your unhappy with your partner when you go outside the relationship to seek gratification then that is considered cheating and in no way should a woman put up with that because its just the times were living in!
We as women need to say no- I don't appreciate you looking at other women when your in a relationship with me!!!


please look at this -
http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/get-the-facts/?gclid=CjwKEAiAjfq2BRDpmdHmssaW5xsSJABToP4lLvbLSQ0HQw8BWfB09w4QuKGxj8Vx4cRvomjENgtPaRoCYuvw_wcB#relationships/porn-kills-love